Four Things You Should Normalize in Relationship

Miftahur Rahman Qudsy
2 min readDec 8, 2021

Most people want to seek deep relationship in which they can live as normal people. Some people might be confused with how to deal with their partners at some points. Absolutely, you want that your relationship will make your life happy or happier. However, to run long-life relationship, you must aware with these four situations and should normalize them.

Conflicts

In the beginning, you might think that your relationship status will end up in happiness, but there is a fact that you both are different person with different experiences and thought. Consequently, you will definitely make some conflicts with your partner.

Having conflicts with your partner is a normal thing. You both just make a mistake not ruining your relationship. So, instead of trying to stop avoiding conflict, try to help yourself come up with possible solution and get some lessons from that. Try to talk about your problem to your partner.

“Clarity over the conflicts”

Boundaries

Instead of trying to fill your partner cup, it will be better you have respect to your partner. If you and your partner have different interest ex. hobby, knowledge, movie genres, etc, make sure you support your partner to do the best on their will even though your need is different. So stop trying to make your partner meets all of your need.

It is important to give respect to your parner privacy. For instance, if your partner doesn’t want to share his/her past events, just don’t force them to speak up. Make your partner comfortable with themselves. It will improve your relationship quality.

Speak Up The Right Thing

Implementing boundaries causes a lot of dialogues. You have to speak up and tell what your mind says to your partner. One thing you should remember that you keep speaking your need to make healthy relationship better not to win argument. It helps you in improving they way you communicate to your partner and not feel bad or sad in some points.

The Newest Version of Your Partner

In case when you start a relationship in which you share a lot of uncommon aspects with your partner, there are many possibilities to change yourself, and your partner too. The latest version of you is real.

However, in some cases, the latest version of your partner might be not compatible to you, but it is still ok. Keep maintaining your relationship with agility.

Those four things will help you in running your relationship without sacrificing yourself. You could be in a relationship and still be yourself.

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